Learn how to forgive someone who has cheated on you and look to the future - Part 2

It's important not to fight about who is right and wrong. Between the two of you it's important to listen to what you both say and pay attention to their views.

Get Them to Promise to Never Do It Again - It's easy for anybody to promise that they can change. The problem is how many of those who say they will change, really do just that? It's no use just talking about things changing, but you will also need to show that things are getting better as well to make things better between the two of you.

It's important that your partner knows that they have affected you with their cheating and not to do it again to you. Ensure that the promise made is real and not just words that will not be carried through. Ensure that she realizes how serious this situation is and is not just trying to have some time alone to do what she wants.

Letting Go - It's important that you move on from what happened. It's difficult to forgive them if you are always reminding them of what they did.

You should make every effort not use their betrayal as a bargaining tool for the things you desire. Forget about the feelings of betrayal you have and forgive your partner to make things better between you.